Dating Sabotage


SMF: In what ways are singles “sabotaging” their future?

Bari: By playing games and not being true and authentic when dating, many singles are sabotaging their chances of meeting that special person and, while they are doing so, time marches on. Many singles buy into pack mentality thinking that “dating is awful” or “there is no one worth meeting” where they live, etc. By being negative and cynical about dating, they are sabotaging their chances of meeting the one when the one person they are looking for may be right in their town. If one is closed to that possibility and filled with fear and confusion, that energy can repel the very person they are seeking. It’s no secret that we attract the kind of energy we send out. When singles are positive and clear, conducting themselves like marriage-minded individuals – “self-empowered” daters as I like to call them, they will be in a wonderful position to recognize Mr. or Ms. Right when they meet him or her. There has never been a better time to date to find the one than now!  With a paradigm shift, any single can alter their experience of dating from being awful to fabulous. By choosing to embrace their own uniqueness and choosing to love dating, as the vehicle to finding lifetime love, dating is elevated to an exciting adventure in one’s life.

About Bari Lyman

As a successful business owner, Bari was used to two things: helping people and being successful. With her staffing company BreakthroughIT, Bari played career matchmaker by helping people find the perfect company fit for their professional aspirations. But despite her business success, she felt discontent when it came to romance. The product of a lonely childhood as well as unfulfilling relationships, she felt incapable of attracting the right man. Not a woman to give up easily, she began a journey to discover her own relationship blockages and blind spots—and conquer them. Her personal transformation into a confident, purposeful dater who knew exactly what she was looking for in a partner—to feel cherished, experience unconditional love and find true partnership—led her to finding Michael. Married in August of 2004, they now share a fulfilling and joyful marriage, and Bari has brought similar breakthroughs to scores of other marriage-minded singles. Bari created the Meet to Marry program based on techniques and lessons learned from a lifetime of personal growth as well as intense study of relationship wisdom and strategies from experts in the field. With over a decade of experience coaching singles in marriage readiness, she is now bringing the revolutionary Meet to Marry program to even more people looking for genuine love. For more about Bari:
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