SMF: In what ways are singles “sabotaging” their future?
Bari: By playing games and not being true and authentic when dating, many singles are sabotaging their chances of meeting that special person and, while they are doing so, time marches on. Many singles buy into pack mentality thinking that “dating is awful” or “there is no one worth meeting” where they live, etc. By being negative and cynical about dating, they are sabotaging their chances of meeting the one when the one person they are looking for may be right in their town. If one is closed to that possibility and filled with fear and confusion, that energy can repel the very person they are seeking. It’s no secret that we attract the kind of energy we send out. When singles are positive and clear, conducting themselves like marriage-minded individuals – “self-empowered” daters as I like to call them, they will be in a wonderful position to recognize Mr. or Ms. Right when they meet him or her. There has never been a better time to date to find the one than now! With a paradigm shift, any single can alter their experience of dating from being awful to fabulous. By choosing to embrace their own uniqueness and choosing to love dating, as the vehicle to finding lifetime love, dating is elevated to an exciting adventure in one’s life.