Bari Lyman

About Bari Lyman

As a successful business owner, Bari was used to two things: helping people and being successful. With her staffing company BreakthroughIT, Bari played career matchmaker by helping people find the perfect company fit for their professional aspirations. But despite her business success, she felt discontent when it came to romance. The product of a lonely childhood as well as unfulfilling relationships, she felt incapable of attracting the right man. Not a woman to give up easily, she began a journey to discover her own relationship blockages and blind spots—and conquer them. Her personal transformation into a confident, purposeful dater who knew exactly what she was looking for in a partner—to feel cherished, experience unconditional love and find true partnership—led her to finding Michael. Married in August of 2004, they now share a fulfilling and joyful marriage, and Bari has brought similar breakthroughs to scores of other marriage-minded singles. Bari created the Meet to Marry program based on techniques and lessons learned from a lifetime of personal growth as well as intense study of relationship wisdom and strategies from experts in the field. With over a decade of experience coaching singles in marriage readiness, she is now bringing the revolutionary Meet to Marry program to even more people looking for genuine love. For more about Bari: MeettoMarry.com

Dating Sabotage

  SMF: In what ways are singles “sabotaging” their future? Bari: By playing games and not being true and authentic when dating, many singles are sabotaging their chances of meeting that special person and, while they are doing so, time … more

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Honoring Needs

  SMF: How did honoring your “top emotional needs” and not compromising on your personal “values” help to attract your husband?    Bari: Honoring my own emotional needs allowed me to be true to myself and to date with confidence … more

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It’s Your Move

  SMF: How does a person gain control over his thoughts and power over his destiny? Bari: With new awareness, any single can choose a new and powerful reality. By choosing to be real and authentic, to love themselves by … more

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Coffee Dates

  SMF: How does one make dating a priority? Bari: As with any goal we want to achieve in life, setting goals and investing consistent time and energy towards that goal is critical to achieving success. Wishing and hoping won’t … more

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Blind Spots – Uncovered

SMF: What are some of the common blind spots plaguing singles dating today? Bari: Blind spots are hidden from our view and can keep us from our happiness. A few examples of blind spots is when a single person says he … more

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