Communication

Externalize It!

  The Chedva Beat: People tend to identify and define themselves by their character traits. What does a client gain by separating himself from these traits? Rachel: I believe clients gain a great deal by separating themselves from defined character traits! … more

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Language | A Unified Project

INTERNATIONAL MARRIAGES – COMMON GOALS I have always found international couples interesting. Both my parents and I are such international marriages. The international couples that are most amusing to me are those in which the two did not share a … more

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A Teaspoon at a Time

  SMF: You have indicated that you are a “believer in the excellence of the current moment” and that your “epistemology embraces the necessity of joy in the moment, moment by moment.” Many people focus on the future or get … more

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Arguing?

The Chedva Beat: How is it possible for a couple to create peace in their home when they are constantly arguing? Batya: Here are some general guidelines that can help. Learn to listen Hear what’s already being said Be successful … more

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It’s Your Move

  SMF: How does a person gain control over his thoughts and power over his destiny? Bari: With new awareness, any single can choose a new and powerful reality. By choosing to be real and authentic, to love themselves by … more

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Value-Powered Communication

  Communication tends to thrive or collapse with empathy. People want to be seen, heard and acknowledged, not ignored. What exactly are we acknowledging when we empathize? Everything! We’re seeing the other’s pain, his passion and his whole spectrum of human experience, … more

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Intentioned Touch

  Imagine your spouse is under extreme stress and starting to get really worked up. What should you do? What does he really need at this moment? Does she need to be alone? Does he need a hug? Should you … more

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