Tag Archives: boundaries

Keeping Out the Dough

It has become the “in thing” for many Jewish mothers to go to a hotel for Passover. Even though this was not the practice of their own mothers, going to a hotel instead of cleaning is becoming the widespread custom … more

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Externalize It!

  The Chedva Beat: People tend to identify and define themselves by their character traits. What does a client gain by separating himself from these traits? Rachel: I believe clients gain a great deal by separating themselves from defined character traits! … more

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Creative Space

  The first thing G-d did was to create a vacated space that allowed for something other than Himself to exist. We must do the same for our partner! We must create space for that person in our lives! In … more

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Intentioned Touch

  Imagine your spouse is under extreme stress and starting to get really worked up. What should you do? What does he really need at this moment? Does she need to be alone? Does he need a hug? Should you … more

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